I’m a homemaker, not a maid.

And that reality is harsh. I see many women lacking the self worth to set proper boundaries. They are showing their family love by doing everything for them. But they aren't showing themselves any love. While that seems saintly and selfless, it ends up giving society women who are unhappy, stressed, anxious, tired, sick, mean, in need of rehab or wanting a divorce. No, really. Boundaries are a tough part of adulting, especially since we've probably jacked them up to begin with. But we can change and so can they.

5 Elements of Harmony (for women married w/ kids)

Somewhere along the road, I apparently adopted the idea that being a married, adult woman with three kids meant I wasn't allowed to do things I like to do. I know that sounds crazy and younger me needed therapy. But I bent my will so hard for everyone else, I rarely did just what I wanted to do in my late 20s and earlier 30s.

One simple rule to get & stay clutter free

Look around and see what things are making your home see cluttered. Most likely it's stuff that just hasn't been put away. If you can figure out how to get that stuff put away, you can figure out how be rid of clutter once and for all!! Stuff often doesn't get put away based on … Continue reading One simple rule to get & stay clutter free